If a Scorpio man likes you, you can glimpse his longing for you when you lock eyes with him. he disappeared but after some time he texted me saying 'I'm sorting my thoughts out because this feels brutal and chaotic' which sounded so childish to me. The Highs. I think we just do it meaning the love stuff because we love you so much but we get scared to tell you that because we don't know if you really love us too?? We'll cover: Scorpio is a fixed, feminine, water sign. It sounds like you are very concerned about pressuring him/scaring him away. The Venus/Jupiter link encourages you to look again at an old situation. He doesn't care about what you think. Hi all, i need an advice please about my scorpio man, we were fine for almost 2 months and then i had a strange feeling he was dating someone else. This way, it's a little easier to tell if the Scorpio is interested or not. Lastly, no one can love a person who doesnt truly love themselves , and if you truly love yourself you will know how and on whom to spend your precious hours, reserve your emotions to your girlfriends , get to know a boy for who he really is before pouring your feelings out to him and feeling vulnerable. Their element is water, meaning they navigate the world through their emotions. He has slowly grown colder and further away. Image: SANAI 2 base museum in Antarctica. He waited till Wednesday and texted 'Hey' I didn't text back I knew something was wrong and I was upset aswell. It doesn't mean that he isn't into you or doesn't care. You might not see the arc, but it's there. If not more. The reason is because he expects those to understand for his behavior. He replied with the 'take care line' and that's it. but he did not even read my message for 2 weeks. Hi, I'm a Leo who was dating a Scorpio for 3 and half months. Scorpio in love is intense, loving, and enveloping. Would appreciate your advice. But if we want to be alone don't feel bad we just need our space. He might do the slow fade out, meaning he stops initiating contact and when you reach out to him he takes hours or days to reply. Unfortunately, this guy tends to throw his anger onto the people he loves most. I would wait for him although as a Cancer I am really not good at waiting on people. The Bug always tells me his Week Plans, work work work, shows up when promised at my Place always needs to go back home to his Dog. We r used to flirting a lot, admit we like eachother but he has a girlfriend -- one that treats him awful and he knows it. I need Dr. We have flirted on and off throughout the last few years but never anything serious because we both have been in relationships. Imagine you have a dog. My scorpio man sais he adores me etc I know he likes me very much a dis genuine but then he desapears for a few days then he comes back. Hopefully you've been having a fine old time lately. On the same note, don't let Scorpio's bad reputation lead you to misjudge someone. I know I hurt him and I regret and I said that. he is soo sweet, and caring and loving and our sex is always great. 10. Rated all ups!! I have known him fr 8 years Best friends that tend to flirt a lot. I must say sometimes we women tolerate too much nonsense. I can guarantee you one thing: a Scorpio waits. I want to add he is younger than me in 6 years, he is 29. I am a Cancer girl but a very strong personality as well. I'm very hurt and miss him so much! I always have a second thought about our relationship. Sometimes he gets his hopes up too high and disappoints himself. Help he is turturing me with mind and body. Ummmm we are 50 and 42. I mean we have made so many plans. Anyway, we just been talking and starring at each other off and on. I felt like it was out of nowhere. He was really obsessive and then he'd cut me off for days. while he's missing in action, i found another guy online and this guy is just a year older(gemini). so, i tried and most of our convrsation will go down to sex. Common personality traits and how they manifest in romance, Top reasons why he's off the grid and ignoring your texts, Explanations for his off-and-on behavior and sudden blow-ups, Important tips for cultivating a healthy relationship. He may have been looking for a specific chemistry and didn't find it. will ask you 100 personal questions but won't tell you much about themselves, can rev from 0 to 100 in a matter of seconds but may let off the gas just as fast (they will likely be the one to determine the speed of a new relationship), when they finally find "The One", they love them with every fiber of their being, can hold a grudge for years but is also capable of deep healing work, tender forgiveness, and bringing dark wounds to the light, will take the time to understand their partner to their core and nurture them accordingly, wants it their way and has a hard time compromising, ignites the spark of a twin flame relationship you'll never forget, although they might instigate many fights within the relationship, they will also fight for the relationship when it needs saving. I really love him and I want to try again where I dont hurt him anymore. The Bug came by the Bar saw me sitting there smiling at him. :( scorpions will love u or they will hate u. Libra- I can totally relate to if scorpio man doesn't respond to my texts, I think he's done. I've never commented on any article ever like this but I need advice before I approach him about this. These in-between times usually happen when he is trying to make an effort because he knows you probably don't understand his intensity or because he's genuinely curious about something you mentioned. He has never been mean or anything like that. And wish I could roll more mid field and not the spikes up and down constantly is really tiring. The first SANAI 1 base under construction. They constantly test you. A scorpio man is something else. I was hurt because before we started dating he said he was in love with me and wanted to settle down have a family etc. A month or so before meeting, he opened up a lot about his personal life to me, and it felt like I was finally getting to know him as a person. When that doesn't get the point across or make him feel vindicated, he'll become passive-aggressive. so yeah.. is he playing. Scorpio friend who ended up kissing me one night, has been gone for 2 weeks. What is this man saying? First he'll become stony and cold. We flirt constantly , talk about crazy things and have fun. LeAve Nd then reappear in my life. I have always wanted True Love with a Woman. Due to Scorpio personality traits, he is introspective and independent. I can't have him and no one else will ever interest me again. This is both a blessing and a curse. He explained he didnt want to do that until we were "OPEN" in front of his daughter about our seriousness. He will not talk about it and shuts right down. Again, as a Capricorn I am secretive and I didnt want it to be something all of our acquaintances knew about. They are wonderful though, no doubt about it. They value honesty and enjoy being . But things are slowy getting boring for me. Tsurugi remembered about flashback that he killed his sister and real tsurugi was pass out when scorpio transform into real tsurugi. He was super into me, to the point where he was almost stalking me (exactly what u mentioned above) although i really didn't mind. From my experience (both as a Scorpio and as someone who has dated several Scorpio men), I'm going to explain their peculiar behavior as best as I can. I really liked this hub. But he still is withdrawing. So, they can go on for a good while after things have cooled off quite a bit. For example, if a Scorpio starts loving art, that may very easily become his new passion in life. Just tell him what he has done wrong and you don't want to keep silent with him because of it. I could never settle for less than the best so I guess I will be on my own with just great memories of him. This is so helpful! We have both been under work stress. If a person born with this sun sign is taking the time to look after you or getting involved with your problems, then you are part of their inner circle. He'll especially spend time on things he's passionate about such as art, music, or even his career. We have had a serious connection and am amazing attraction together. If a Scorpio man really cares about a person then it's really hard for them to forget that person, let alone disappear. I rather move on and look for someone else right away, but he's totally worth it. When a Scorpio man takes you in completely as in loving you you ultimately become their possession until you betray them. Then you can slowly start to open up and show your more sensitive side. Their understanding of others is deep and incisive. I am a pisces. This goes on for a while until you take the unfortunate hint. In my opinion, we Scorpios take offhanded comments a bit too personally. Most of time i have to think before making a friend with any other boy. Sorry if sounds weird just guessing lol. then i try to contact him asking whether he only wants me for sexting ? 1. He doesn't reach out and he doesn't reply when you contact him. The Band was on Break in the Back, i was not looking for him, was sitting at the Bar talking with the Bartender etc, having a good Time. Like all water signs, Scorpio men love hard and forever, and feel things intensely. But I emailed him many times apologizing to him and saying that I loved him and asking him to forgive me but I did not get even one word back. And if you don't remember the first few times you tugged on his tail, because his response wasn't memorable, wellthat's not his problem. From the way you talk to your hand gestures, he will notice everything and take a deep interest in you. I haven't acted clingy at all, and I don't plan on doing so at any point. These tips are meant to mitigate possible challenges in a Scorpio partnership, but if you ever feel threatened, manipulated, or mistreatedthey are not worth your wellbeing. If they keep asking, I either lash out because I want them to go away without explaining that I am upset or I pretend that I just don't feel well. (sometimes, not always, but sometimes, it's a flat our lie, esp. I am a sadge sun otherwise and not in the least clingy or demanding. Betrayal can consume me as much as love can. He also had an additive personality. It tells me that he thinks the relationship is strong enough that he doesn't have to worry about putting on a show and being talkative every day. Sometime i feel not to have a same sign mate. If he's pointing fingers for every problem that crops up in your relationship, he's trying to put the responsibility on you so he doesn't have to take accountability himself. This protective behavior comes naturally to them. then when i texted him if he arrived to his work, he said yes. The Scorpio man is perfect in every way. He feels burned or embarrassed and has withdrawn to nurse his wounds. It was a little confusing but I don't take what people say to heart. I forgot to mention that he's really not good at communicating anything. And when he's not, he's not. So, I got pissed and send him many messages that were saying how much he hurt me by doing that but I was definitely a bit hysterical lol because on top of being a Cancer, I was starting to pms. There are no gentle touches. I'm so lost please help. I also think it's easy to fall for them - at least in my case!!! but what actually is he doing? I bet you he will not like it very much and now he knows how you feel. we met online and been seeing each other for a month already. I just told him I was over the whole thing and we havent spoken since. I believe that when he withdraws like this and possibilities one, two, and three have been ruled out, it says a lot about his confidence in the relationship. help, This does help about Scorpios!! This is the only way to defend himself or apologize. do I just go along with however he's feeling? But actually, they are great observers. Im totally confused coz he's giving me mixed signals. Complex for sure, but no more so than any other sign. Now imagine you're a small child that has just discovered the dog's tail and begins to playfully tug on it. Cancer in love is shy, responsive, and empathic. hi, i'm aqua girl, student 23 yr old. Have I lost him for good? Then I get a long reply to my text were he doesn't see us going anywhere in a relationship because I can't communicate and I make funny faces and seem to take him as a joke and not seriously. They feel everything! it was monday and he said cannot because he has work. Let a Scorpio man know what he has done or said to upset you. I guess he never was that interested after all. 1. We met at a party, hooked up and then hung out like twice. needless to say it is a long distance relationship on top of that we don't see each other as much as we would like to. Also with some women I have a great attraction but is not always about sex, but companionship, frienship. He seldom wallows in envy or self-pity, and he doesn't happen to think that life owes him a single farthing. He will not tell me what is wrong. Never put them under pressure , they are so sensetive . My bf is soo hot and heavy everyday and then goes off the grid for no more than 48 hrs every so often, and it is usually cuz he is genuinely busy. And our conversation end with quarrel. 5 He enjoys private, romantic dates. But when they do finally lash out, they do so in brilliant form. 2. Then we didn't talk much about what happened except I had asked him if he's testing me subconsciously and he said that maybe but he's not sure. They will want to think things over before making a decision. There is no getting over him and I know it. Tsurugi:I'm killed nee-san. It's about you feeling small and crushed, cowering in a corner surrounded by your guilt. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 30, 2012: amymarie 5 - Thanks! You are theirs alone and nobody else's therefore, you can only share your personal feelings or opinions with him. Eyes are the windows to the soul and can tell so much about a person - especially if that person is a Scorpio! Yes, this is a scorpio, who claims to be in a homosexual relationship yet he's this possessive and jealous of me. I told him I didnt know because he hurt my feelings and I felt like he was playing games with me. Hopefully, now he can apologize, or at the very least stop ignoring you. Taurus in love with scorp on December 05, 2018: He is giving me silent treatment for over than one year. I have stood by him knowing how hurt he is. But you need to remember that he needs to show the same concern for you. He won't lash out right away. They need lots of love , attention & affection . Now he's gone. The Scorpio man has a strong sense of self-esteem and is passionate about what he does. Part of me was over the moon with joy, but another part of me wanted to yell at him! I think Scorpios are very complex people. We do everything together, but I am just a "friend" no PDA etc.. which is 110% fine with me. Be strong and dont let him control you. We were totally fine for a month, then he was at his friend's place and he was supposed to come to stay with me before going home but he got sick and he only texted me when he was already on the way home without even telling me he's thinking of not coming. I couldn't understand this guy for the life of me but I was really falling for him because of it. i met this scorpio guy age 32 online. So I recently met a scorpio and we instantly had a spiritual, physical and emotional connection. Bottom line is, I am losing my mind and I need help. So, he didn't respond for a while but when he responded he said that I guess i am right that we are not for each other and he tried his best, that he is sad and disappointed, and that he wanted to be the person that I give my love to but he wishes me to find someone who will. These could be possibilities why he disappeared. I will say to the women having troubles however, that if he's disapearing for a WK or more regularly, it really has nothing to do with his sign and waay more to do with you're just not a major priority yet. They hone in on a project and become very obsessed. Opt for places that give you space to talk one-on-one. Well, a couple days ago, he texts me out of the blue "hey wife." He texted the next day a long paragraph why I demonstrate no communication by not texting back and that he wasn't mad at me that day etc Then I gave him a long paragraph explanation reply. My Mom passed March 31 and I wouldn't have been able to make it if it weren't for him. These guys have the most intense eyes in the zodiac. I just dont have the heart for scorpios mind games and Im tired of my emotions being played with. Stay calm Final Words When a Scorpio Man Ignores You Does Scorpio man stops communicating all of sudden? He did ask me many Time to come see him at the Gigs but i never went until last June. Tell him so. They are a little different . Angel Ward from Galveston, TX on July 25, 2012: I agree 1000% And the comment with a scorp's mom in the hospital, there is always some drama going on, that's a great excuse for withdrawal, to distract the sig. We pick up where we left off. I am the type that gets smothered when a guy is constantly blowing the messages up or calling. We love each other so much, there is such Trust between us. I called, text, even went over. Again, anyone going through all of this nonsense, move on. I don't know why he begs to be with me then leaves. Scorpio is naturally suspicious but soon sees that Cancer's a softy. They may tell occasional white lies, but they can never truly pretend or fake, which means they often come off as overly blunt. Hi im a scorpio female and i have this habit of disspearing for a few days when im going through all the above phases. Water signs are emotional, and Scorpios are most sensitive of all. Then when they already knew it's sign of love, they trick their mind assuming the object isn't feel the same, again, to avoid disappointment. and i just okay with it although a bit disappointing. I've dated other Scorpios before and they were all super cool in the beginning and then they became mean afterwards so it wasn't hard for me to let go of them. Blame is unhealthy in any relationship. 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